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Dear Friends,

Just this week, a friend had the honor of having his adopted child being legally declared his.  I am sure it is a surreal moment to have it declared officially and to know this child is forever yours. As great as this moment is, though, it is only the beginning. The parents now take their child and raise him according to their family’s ways, customs, and traditions. They teach the child, not how to earn his way into their family, but what it means to be a part of their family.

In our text this Sunday, we find a very similar situation. Peter has delivered the great declaration of our adoption in Christ (1 Peter 2:9-10) and has laid out the implications of this wonderful act in 1 Peter 2:11-3:22. Just as a father takes his newly adopted son and teaches him the ways of his new family, so God takes us and teaches us his ways. In 1 Peter 4:1-11, we learn how folks in God’s family carry themselves – not to earn God’s good favor but because of God’s good favor.

I would encourage you to take some time to reflect on God’s Word in 1 Peter. Start with the declaration of who we are in Christ in 1 Peter 2:9-10 and read through 1 Peter 4:1-11 to see the implications of that great truth. Since we have been adopted in Christ, how shall we live as God’s children? See you Sunday!

In Christ

Pastor Alex

Dear Friends,

So, we’re coming back to 1 Peter 2:21-3:7 and God’s Word on marriage for another week. I probably should have anticipated that! Marriage is complicated and what God says to wives and husbands in 1 Peter 3:1-7 can be unsettling and alarming to our modern ears.

As I shared last week, a counselor once said to me, “Ewan, in marriage you can either be right or you can be happy. You can’t be both and you have to choose one!” I laughed a little at that. I knew it was true! But as someone who likes/needs to be right (or acknowledged as being right) too much, it also weighed on me.

I’m still thinking about that as we come back, this Sunday and next week in our Daily Worship Devotions, to our 1st Peter text on marriage. If you were not with us in Worship, I encourage you to listen to last week’s sermon as we covered a lot of stuff related to the obvious and important problem: “Isn’t this text demeaning to wives/women!?”

This whole section of 1st Peter is on “application.” In the past weeks, we’ve considered how God’s Word addresses and changes our relationships with the government and our employers. Now, in 1 Peter 2:21-3:7, God turns his attention towards marriage. While this text does speak to situations where one spouse has converted to Christianity and the other has not, it also speaks in deep and profound ways to all marriages. 1 Peter 2:21-3:7 especially speaks to people who are experiencing difficulty, loneliness, tension, and conflict in their marriage.Read More

Dear Friends,

A counselor once said to me, “Ewan, in marriage you can either be right or you can be happy. You can’t be both and you have to choose one!” 

I probably laughed a little at that. I knew it was true! But as someone who likes/needs to be right (or acknowledged as being right) too much, it also weighed on me.

That conversation came to mind as this Sunday, and next week in our Daily Worship Devotions, our text is all about marriage. In the past weeks, we’ve considered how God’s Word addresses and changes our relationships with the government and our employers. Now, in 1 Peter 2:21-3:7, God turns his attention towards marriage. While this text does speak to situations where one spouse has converted to Christianity and the other has not, it also speaks in deep and profound ways to all marriages. 1 Peter 2:21-3:7 especially speaks to people who are experiencing difficulty, loneliness, tension, and conflict in their marriage.

How does Christianity impact the marriage relationship? Or how should Christianity impact marriage? When we consider what God has to say about marriage in 1st Peter, the key issue is “Who wins in marriage?” Marriage, like all relationships, involves conflict. Conflict is not bad, it’s just a reality. Conflict can lead to good things or it can lead to bad things. It’s all about how you do it and where you get to!

So, “Who wins in marriage?” If you feel like you are losing in your marriage, that’s a lonely and difficult place to be. However, with regard to the question, the stark truth is: If you think you are winning in your marriage, not only are you losing, you are not experiencing or enjoying what it means to be loved. That is lonely and difficult too.   

So take some time to reflect on God’s Word in 1st Peter this week. Start with the specific instructions about marriage in  1 Peter 3:1-7. After reflecting on that, go back and read it in it’s proper context: 1 Peter 2:21-3:7. How does the context of the verses at the end of chapter 2 impact how we understand marriage and the exhortations in 1 Peter 3:1-7?

I look forward to walking together with you in 2020 and I am excited to see what God will do among us.

Yours in Christ,

Pastor Ewan